I worried for many years when I heard sermons in church about using your gifts etc. For many years I just thought to myself, "What gifts?" I couldn't do anything artistic. I have no artistic gifts, unlike my dad. I couldn't do anything musical. My piano teacher used to hit her head off the piano. I couldn't be a nurse. I am squeamish and can't even watch Casualty. I couldn't be a policewoman. I'm not brave. I couldn't be a teacher. I'm not patient enough. My own kids exhaust me. I couldn't be in catering. I'm not domesticated. I am quite good at spelling and jigsaws but I don't know how to make a living out of those gifts. However! In prison chaplaincy I have found I do have two gifts which I use all the time. I'm good at drinking coffee and I'm good at listening to absolutely fascinating stories. Who knew?